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Wednesday, 4 May 2011
Monday, 28 March 2011
A Gamble called Marriage
“Marriages”, they say,” are made in Heaven”. That is probably why; they are
never down to earth. Just see, what an extravaganza we make out of a marriage:
glittering jewellery, gorgeous silk sarees, flashing video lights, bouquets and
buffets and what not.
In spite of the entire circus, one is still not sure of the success or
otherwise
of a marriage. From that perspective, matrimony resembles the stock market
gamble. If you are lucky, you will win a lottery; or else, you will be doomed
for the rest of your life!
This risk puts one in an awful dilemma - to wed or not to. Adding to one’s
confusion, some people offer this ‘sincere’ advice: “FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE, DON’T
MARRY!” One just cannot ignore this because it mostly comes from some married
people. After all, they are experienced and they know better.
Who is more at risk in matrimony, the boy or the girl? It is a debatable
question. Going by what Benjamin Disraeli said, “Every women should marry---and
no man!” more than the fair sex, the male counterpart appears to be the
worst-affected by matrimony. However, you may see this is a man’s view point.
Others put it in a different way: “Getting married? By all means go ahead. If
you get a good wife, you will enjoy a happy life. Otherwise, the world
will have
a good philosopher. But the man’s world is very unfair to the fair sex
in saying
this.
Anyway, if everyone had taken them seriously, it would have been the beginning
of the end of human race. After all, nobody learns lessons form others’
mistakes. And the writer is no exception!
Having decided to take the matrimonial plunge, it was perfectly in
order to look
into the ‘matchmakers’ column of newspapers. Browsing through the cluster of
ads, one is awestruck by their bewildering varieties. They offer every type of
boy and girl under the Sun. And those tricky terms… ‘broad-minded’,
’accomplished’, ’wheatish complexion’,’ domestically trained…(animal?), a
profile which any boy or girl would start fantasising about the life-partner.
One ad says ‘mother not alive’, probably the USP is to attract those
poor people
who are wary of the mother-in-law! Responding to such ads looks like
shooting in
the dark. You don’t know whom they’re aimed at. It reminds us of the
practice in
some societies of traditional India and China where the bride and groom are not
allowed to see each other until they are brought together for the wedding
ceremony. Oh…what a suspense!
The world population statistics say that there are a less number of women than
men in many societies. That makes hunting for a wife as the next project for a
boy after hunting for a job. Who knows the world may come to a full circle. And
as happened in the good old days, ‘Swayamwarams’ may become a reality
in future,
where a girl can choose from a number of eligible bachelors who will stand in
queue to get hand-picked.
The remaining ‘rejected’ ones from the marriage mela need not worry. They will
have the freedom in the morning to get up from both the sides of their beds!
never down to earth. Just see, what an extravaganza we make out of a marriage:
glittering jewellery, gorgeous silk sarees, flashing video lights, bouquets and
buffets and what not.
In spite of the entire circus, one is still not sure of the success or
otherwise
of a marriage. From that perspective, matrimony resembles the stock market
gamble. If you are lucky, you will win a lottery; or else, you will be doomed
for the rest of your life!
This risk puts one in an awful dilemma - to wed or not to. Adding to one’s
confusion, some people offer this ‘sincere’ advice: “FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE, DON’T
MARRY!” One just cannot ignore this because it mostly comes from some married
people. After all, they are experienced and they know better.
Who is more at risk in matrimony, the boy or the girl? It is a debatable
question. Going by what Benjamin Disraeli said, “Every women should marry---and
no man!” more than the fair sex, the male counterpart appears to be the
worst-affected by matrimony. However, you may see this is a man’s view point.
Others put it in a different way: “Getting married? By all means go ahead. If
you get a good wife, you will enjoy a happy life. Otherwise, the world
will have
a good philosopher. But the man’s world is very unfair to the fair sex
in saying
this.
Anyway, if everyone had taken them seriously, it would have been the beginning
of the end of human race. After all, nobody learns lessons form others’
mistakes. And the writer is no exception!
Having decided to take the matrimonial plunge, it was perfectly in
order to look
into the ‘matchmakers’ column of newspapers. Browsing through the cluster of
ads, one is awestruck by their bewildering varieties. They offer every type of
boy and girl under the Sun. And those tricky terms… ‘broad-minded’,
’accomplished’, ’wheatish complexion’,’ domestically trained…(animal?), a
profile which any boy or girl would start fantasising about the life-partner.
One ad says ‘mother not alive’, probably the USP is to attract those
poor people
who are wary of the mother-in-law! Responding to such ads looks like
shooting in
the dark. You don’t know whom they’re aimed at. It reminds us of the
practice in
some societies of traditional India and China where the bride and groom are not
allowed to see each other until they are brought together for the wedding
ceremony. Oh…what a suspense!
The world population statistics say that there are a less number of women than
men in many societies. That makes hunting for a wife as the next project for a
boy after hunting for a job. Who knows the world may come to a full circle. And
as happened in the good old days, ‘Swayamwarams’ may become a reality
in future,
where a girl can choose from a number of eligible bachelors who will stand in
queue to get hand-picked.
The remaining ‘rejected’ ones from the marriage mela need not worry. They will
have the freedom in the morning to get up from both the sides of their beds!
Saturday, 26 March 2011
Bill and Melinda Gates' day out in Bihar
n this March 23, 2011 photo Microsoft Corp founder and philanthropist Bill Gates, right, and his wife Melinda Gates attend to a child as they meet with members of the Mushar community at Jamsot Village near Patna.
Saturday, 19 March 2011
Top 10 Places To Visit In Ukraine.
Ukraine is one of the beautiful country in all over the world, this country is full of culture, natural beauty and there are various places which are full of fun and entertainment. In my opinion no trip will be completed without visiting these places. Here in this article I arrange top ten amazing places to visit in Ukraine, these places are as under, I hope you will also like it.
01. Kamyanets-Podilskyy and Hotyn Fortresses
Hotyn Fortresses is one of the best place in Ukraine and in my opinion without visit this beautiful place the tour of Ukraine will not completed. This amazing place is one of the top wonder of Ukraine; this was famous in Europe the hub of wars.
St. Sophia Cathedral is also one of the best place to visit in Ukraine. This is historical place and it is under the protection of UNESCO. Large number of people comes here to see its beauty.
03. Kiev-Pechersk Lavra
Kiev Pechersk Lavra is also included in the list of best place Ukraine and large number of people comes here to see the beauty of this amazing place. This is popular for its compound and it is consist of 2 parts above is religious and subversive caves.
04. Hoverla Mountain
Hoverla Mountain is also one of the beautiful place of Ukraine and this mountain is in top position because of its height in Ukraine. This mountain is full adventure for the tourist, and without visiting this attractive place your trip will not completed.
05. Olesko Castle
No doubt Olesko Castle is one of the amazing place to visit in Ukraine and cause of its beauty is that there is a castle on the hill which is very attractive and this building is built with stone, so if you come in Ukraine must visit this beautiful place.
06. Palanok Castle in Mukacheveo
Palanok castle is also one of the beautiful place to visit in Ukraine and it is one of the historical place which was laid at least 14th century. This castle is located in Mukacheveo.
07. Pochaev Lavra
Pochaiv Lavra is place which is the great achievement of architecture and one of the best place to visit in Ukraine, this is holy place and a large number of people comes here to the this attractive place.
08. Esembly Of Rynok Square in Lviv
Esembly of Rynok Square in Lviv is also one of the beautiful place in Ukraine it was built in 14th century and included in the list of historical place. Most of the visitor comes here every year to see this amazing place.
09. Zhovkva town and Receive Monastery
Zhokva town and Kreciv Monastery is also one of the best place to visit in Ukraine and this is historical place which was built in 1724. This wooden church is one of the amazing building in Ukraine. In my opinion without visiting this place you trip will not completed.
Shevchenkivskyy Park is also one of the best place in Ukraine, there are various schools and churches which was built in 18th century, this is located in lviv region. So must see this amazing place once a life.
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